In our final episode with Pastor Destin, a wild-card night turns into a conversation about "wounding," the moments we come to believe a lie about who we are. Destin shares the surprisingly simple question that exposes where those lies come from: How old do you feel? He also explains why Jesus never speaks to us in "nots."

Bill brings the grace-vs-law challenge: why do Christians find it easier to live under rules than under grace? We land on community and communion, and why what's broken in community can only be healed in community. If you can't find a table, make one.

Referenced: Henri Nouwen, Rob Reimer, Philip Yancey, Acts 3, Luke 14, Matthew 25.