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4 Ways Narcissists Make You Look Like the Abuser

Rebecca Zung

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4 Ways Narcissists Make You Look Like the Abuser//Do you know someone who always takes credit for your work, or who is always talking about themselves? They might be a narcissist. Narcissists can be very manipulative and make you look like the abuser in any relationship. Rebecca Zung, best-selling author, lawyer, and narcissist negotiation expert, shares four ways narcissists make you look like the abuser.
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@RebeccaZungEsq Creator 4 years ago Pinned

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@LEVI040910 4 years ago

Shut them ALL THE WAY DOWN!

@CH-lj8lx 4 years ago

I lived and died slowly with a Narcissists over eight years. During that time I was degraded, insulted and made to look like an abuser. Court to her was a play ground as she had everything built up over years of calculating chess moves. In court during the divorce, I was looked down upon by the judge even though I did nothing. In the first year I did not see my son, she made me fight for everything including visitation. Communication was limited to emails and in emails she would twist words, phrases and general conversations into something she would use against me in court. My best advice is to limit your responses to yes or no answers. Don’t engage, let your lawyers do that for you. Limit your exposure as much as humanly possible and move on with your life. I am about 14 years past my divorce, have zero contact with her and yet I still get upset with myself once in a while for what I let go on so many years ago. Destruction of your humanity is a fun and quick game for them, but healing is a slow process for you. Don’t give up on yourself only give up on them. Walk away as fast as possible….

@jameslaiola4976 4 years ago

Oh yes. The table turning malignant manipulator. Its a crazy conundrum to deal with. Always glad to see you

@iamgoddessoflove 4 years ago

Narcissists are excellent at acting. They get people by their charm and performance. It can leave you confused because they are so innocent in playing victim and pointing you as the abuser. Don't fall for it!💙YouTuber That Helps People Overcome Toxic Relationships

@susannahschannel6643 4 years ago

Agreements mean nothing to them. As soon as they get what they are wanting, they will try something like kicking you out of the house after you buy the big ticket hard to move items, or things that are affixed to a house they own and will think they're totally entitled to it. Shut them down! Also, boundaries are quite the trick for just saying NO, when they try to "shitdump" all their responsibility and expenses onto you.

@justaguitarplayer2059 4 years ago

My Mom says I’m abusive when I calmly ask her to tell the truth. We haven’t spoken in a year ….she lies and gaslights like it’s her job. I have been building myself up for a year , and realize I am probably better off never talking to her again. Narcissists won’t change , they will lie to the bitter end

@a.garcia7127 4 years ago

My best friend just finished clocking a narc.

@surv2239 4 years ago

Twenty three years today, it started on that very day. I was lied about, provoked to anger and made to look crazy as well as stupid. Praise God, his sister lied for him so he wasn't served his paperwork, due diligence was served and he will have the repercussions for all he's done.

@yukio_saito 4 years ago (edited)

Shut them down! My toxic ex-coworker exactly followed the steps from #1 to #3:

1. He blackmailed me blaming me for things I wasn't responsible for.
2. He took advantage of my boss as an enabler or a flying monkey. (The boss was also a covert narcissist). The coworker told the boss how poor he was because of me.
3. He started yelling at me.

I didn't take the bait! I just ran away from the rotten workplace. I'm glad all healthy coworkers also left the company.

@susannahschannel6643 4 years ago

I document everything, these days, dated, timestamp usually... and I stay in my office on top of a recording device.

@YouBethatjudge 3 years ago

I am so betrayed.

@itisfinishednowtimetoclean2723 4 years ago

I sensed his entire family change their attitudes towards me, so yeah, I Knew, I just decided if they believed I was bad, then that’s Fine with me.

@JH-du2jz 4 years ago

Shut them down! Enough of the fake drama.

@CLHS1944 4 years ago

Shut them DOWN! NAMAslay!
Every pt presented the ex a covert narc did and still does! Plays he’s the poor victim. SMH!

@wiandewaal 4 years ago

They are so punitive OMG! It's so annoying how tit for tat stupid they actually are. So oversensitive ... the tiniest 'surprise' rattles them into giving them the licence to comeback with amps way up higher to gaslight...dominate you. It's truly exhausting. I refuse to do any eggshell walking around them anymore. I wanna shut them down with my ignorance. See who's getting tired of the mindgames.

@davidhinkson8856 4 years ago

My narc wife and her mother got a kick out of that because they felt the law was on their side since they were women. They often did it with my daughter, who was still young at the time, in the midst of it, but when I saw how hurt my daughter got when I responded to them in kind, I stopped reacting and left them to play their foolish games. I left last September, but what worries me is that my daughter is now stuck with those two vipers.

@tlove6932 4 years ago

SHUT THEM DOWN! They stoop soooo LOW! Its so horrible. Constantly trying to "Project" onto me what THEY are guilty of! i need waaaay better Legal help/representation BIGLY 😕

@kaylisa2655 4 years ago

He has freaked me out so bad I’ve peed my pants and freeze and can’t get the proof I need. He knows that I am terrified

@dennismccole7255 4 years ago (edited)

SHUT THEM DOWN---many yrs ago in I was married to a possessed lady that would always sign TRO's against moi, first one she dropped it in a week, the 2nd one took 2 weeks in court she dropped it, 3rd she finalized it but dropped it a few weeks after, then signed a 4th against moi but I finally left her in AZ, then called me at my parents house a few yrs after that