That first girl also nukerd her relationship with her dad. If you know about the breakdancing dad, that was his daughter.

I understand why they are putting there Ls online. They want pity. They want the line of people that will show up to support them. They just don't want the criticism and laughter.

Very true....we really do find women attractive... just as they are... like literally

30:09 I once knew this guy (a bit of a drinker) and he had a GF. They then got into an argument, and she gave an ultimatum: "it's me or the beers". He replied: "well, at least the beers won't yell at me..."

When a girl starts talking about her 'type' overtly while you're applying for the position, she's describing the person she will dump you for all else being equal.

31:00 This isn't about her trying to get married people to cheat, it's about her thinking that the type of men she's attracted to seem to go for the more daintier type of women. ("I'm attracted to him. Oh he's already married? What kind of woman? Different than me? I guess that's their preference then") A rare moment of Shoe finding a video of someone having a moment of self-reflection instead of projection.

31:43 this woman is smart she wasn’t getting the results she wanted so she looked at the women who had successfully got what she wanted and watched what they were doing differently

Zai wasn't prepared for the level of Ls

31:54 She isn't saying she WANTS them. She is saying she finds a guy hot, but he is taken, and it is by a girl unlike her and she figured out the correlation.
That's why she isn't moving on them or saying they rejected her specifically.
Basically, she is saying "guys i find hot don't find ME hot and it is because of how I look "

2:10 Toes in my mouth are like No 10 on the list at most, but things like "A healthy relationship", "A girlfriend that doesn't call me gay for wanting to cuddle", "homeownership" and "A job I genuinely enjoy doing" are all unrealistic.

It’s not always about the girl actually being dainty. Sometimes it’s about her acting dainty around you or for you.

Won't lie, makeup tends to be a bit of a turn off sometimes for me just because some people plaster it on waaaay too much and I remember feeling relieved when most of my friends agreed with me. Then we all laughed at the one friend that said "y'all are weird. If she don't look like barbie you shouldn't want her"

The issue I take with the "whoever asks the person out on a date should pay" idea is that it is culturally expected that the man does the approaching, which usually means asking for the date. The woman might give the guy her phone number so that he can call her (and then ask her out on a date), but she is very, very rarely the one to ask. So the vast majority of the time this idea just means "the guy should pay for the date."

It feels like a faux middle-ground where you would initially say "oh yea that's fair," but the more you think about it the less even it actually is.

My wife went through my phone and dissappeared into the bathroom. She returns a few minutes later and she freaking put a picture of her in a greensuit as my background image.

Men are taught how to treat a women, but not what to expect from one. Women are taught what to expect from a man, but not how to treat one. Women may be the emotional sex, but men are the empathetic sex. Also, female hypergamy is a real thing.

5:33 "My diet is red bull" - is that the name of your fantasy minotaur,? Oh my...

Fun L: way back when (like 15 years?) Taco bell had their xxl chalupa. The cashier was cute, so i kept going back up to order another one, so i could talk to her. Ended up eating 7 xxl chalupas. The last one i got, she mentioned she was going on her break soon. After i sat back down with my friends, they mentioned they were done, so i got up and left with them. About 5 years later my friends brought it up, laughing that she wanted me to join her for the break and i was just like "wait what? That's why she said it?"

9:55 I have a firm rule of not paying for dates until a girl is confirmed to be my girlfriend(likewise I never let a girl treat me unless we were in a relationship) but I also have never gone beyond holding hands before a girl has been confirmed as mine exclusively.

1:34 Watch that one! Gaze upon the glory of a man's ideal living quarters!

im just vibing playing WoW with this on my second monitor and all of a sudden I hear "My biggest L is putting my airfryer in the oven". WHAT! I have whiplash and confusion what?