During an Asia tour, I (57) spontaneously spent 9 days in Vietnam for the first time and ended up dating a very nice Vietnamese woman (32) in the last 3 days of my stay in HMC. The dates with her were simply wonderful and did not feel like bad job interviews as they usually do in Germany ;-D. Honestly, I did not expect to meet anyone over there. I did watch your videos though before I went on the first date with her and it helped tremendously. Thank you for that. I still keep in touch with her daily and I am already planning to see her again.

I appreciate your transparency and honesty Michael!  Real ones know. That's the only way to be. I'm in Da Nang now. getting a lay of the land. Maybe our paths  can cross and connect one day. I'll be in HCMC in a few weeks.

Great video Micheal!! Standing by your masculine frame(purpose) and allowing it to help you identify that right woman(she supports your purpose) is a match made in heaven.
“ if you build it, they will come”.
Build your purpose in a coffee shop, build it in the gym, etc.. but like you said, she must know that you have a purpose!!

Thanks…great video!

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Love your videos man. Very informative. 👍🏿

so true. Everything you said.

I agree that the serious is seen as being more stable and conservative  than a joker. I've tried dating in VN, just found TH girls to be a more  straightforward date and a bit more heart and soul

Great video Michael. great info, and thanks for sharing about your faith.

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I never knew a thing of Vietnam, what I did find on my first visit was meeting someone in Crazy Bar in Walking street. A year later we are still going strong. Vietnamese woman is very negative in general, and she is very strong willed if that’s a good way of explaining. Men have to pay the way for dates and for the dinners or shopping. She does not show emotions or say I love you she will say it differently by example when having dinner she will let me eat first or feed me before she eats. She never dress up for work but omg when we do dinner she puts in a lot of effort. The sad part is her struggle financially supporting her family it is hard on her she is basically looking after her younger sister financially so she has had to put marriage and relationship aside for raising her sister. Her parents really put a big debt on her and her brother it is tough but besides all of that she has the qualities maturity and discipline at 29 that I have not seen in Western woman at ages 45-50. So for me to retire in Vietnam is now on the cards but the law is so difficult to deal with or get my head around it is pretty much not able to happen. Very sad

This is great information. I'm 62, recently retired, living in Da Nang. I sold my house in the states, so I have financial stability from the proceeds in addition to Social Security. My goal in retirement is to pursue my true passion which is creating art. I pursue things that give my life meaning, from photography to painting and illustration as well as digital art. I'm not really  very spiritual or religious but I have a strong sense of morality nonetheless.
  Well, during Tet, earlier this year I met a woman. Of course , this being Vietnam, I was struck by her beauty right away.  I was sitting with my friends and she was sitting at the next table with her friends. They were speaking Vietnamese, but I could immediately tell from the cadence and style of her speech,  along with the laughter she elicited from her friends, I was able to tell that she was very funny and witty. Wit and a sense of humor is a huge turn on for me. As the night went on, one of her friends ( I'll refer to her as M to keep the players straight) asked me if they could join me and my friends. One of her friends ( I'll refer to her as N) was a attracted to a friend of mine, and this one (I'll refer to her as W) was attracted to my other friend but he had no interest in her. Her friend N and my friend dated a few times and I went with her other friend M on a double date. M and I had great conversations, but there wasn't any real romantic attraction. We've since become good friends. I learned that the W is also from Da Nang but lives down in HCMC, is well educated and has a good career. She had by that time returned to HCMC.
 My friend and N's romance did not last, mainly because of the difference in cultural expectations towards intimacy, exactly the way you described in this video. I maintained a platonic friendship with M, but I couldn't get W out of my mind. I eventually friended her on social media but never really pursued her.  
Fast forward a couple of months to the other day, M and I were having coffee and W came up in conversation. She had seen some of my sociual media photos of myself and another woman from a  recent trip to HCMC and she had asked M about them.  I told M that there was nothing between the woman in the photo and myself (which was the truth). I told M about my attraction to W and her wit and that I should message her and start talklng to her. So I messaged W the next day wit  a simple hello. She responded and we began talking. I told her about my creative projects and things going on in my life, including my passion for artwork. She seemed to repsond well to that, adding that her artisrtic abilities aren't very good. Toward the conclusion of our coversation, I suggested that the next time we are in the same city together, that her and I should go on a date. She responded positively to that. After our conversation, I decided to do something to impress her. I took one of her social media photos and am creating a nice drawing of her based off of it. It's turning out pretty good and I look forward to showing it to her. It's also inspiring me to make another trip to HCMC in the near future to see her in person again. I'm going with the intention of seeing if a long term relationship, up to and including marriage, is possible with her.
To wrap this up, I greatly appreciate the information you imparted in this video. It's provided me with insights that I feel will really help me in winning her over. Wish me luck  🙂

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Hey Michael great information.

Michael I totally agree with you. We men initiate asking a woman out so we should pay.

Michael…..dating has not chanced….it is still 🎉  just your  you common sense …..all this is crab,,,I met Vietnam women  and no problem to be boyfriend ,,she newer ask money been together 3 years. Thanks

When she says you are handsome, don't think it means anything. When she says you are cute, then she likes you.

Vietnamese women are different in South and North of Vietnam. In Hochimin it's easier to date or even just hook up for one night because people more open minded

Totally agree with this video. I have been in Vietnam for almost month and I've been to some dates here and I can tell that vietnamese women they are very very conservative. I went out for 9 dates, and only two I was able to made out with the girl in the first date. So here we need to have a lot patience to have some kind of success.