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Getting Through A Breakup: What I've Learned

Cole Hastings

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My full breakup story and how I managed to overcome it.

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Intro: 0:00
Stage 1: Grievance: 1:16
Stage 2: Acceptance: 9:11
Stage 3: Metamorphosis: 12:35

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Hey, I'm Cole Hastings. I'm a vegan athlete/content creator with a passion for videography/video editing, among other things. I help people build themselves physically/mentally through fitness and self help videos.

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20 Comments

@ColeHastings Creator 5 years ago (edited) Pinned

Hope you enjoyed me exposing myself!

If you have any other tips for people going through a breakup, please leave a comment.

@georgesanchez0327 5 years ago (edited)

"To all the people with good hearts, one day you'll get what you deserve."

@djmaten 5 years ago (edited)

Its not about the feeling that I wont be seeing her. Its about the mindset that shes gonna do stuff we used to do together with someone else that completely kills me inside

@Genezis_O 5 years ago (edited)

POST BREAKUP PEOPLE, READ THIS:

If someone you love broke up with you, remember: "You only lost someone who doesn't love you anymore. It's them, they lost someone who loved them."

Now ask yourself, who has really lost, you or them?

@sahilthedisciple 3 years ago

For anyone who had to look up this video… I’m so sorry. Breakups are never easy, but know that you are not alone and that you will be ok one day

@L.Ran95 4 years ago

“Accept the fact that you’ll never be with them again” just struck like lightning to my heart

@oscaybuscuits6205 5 years ago

Break ups are always super painful...but they always lead to the greatest of glow ups.

@kearress7350 5 years ago

"Because you didn't want to lose her, you lost yourself in the process. Find yourself again and you wil find happiness!"

@z_rock8391 3 years ago

Girlfriend of 5 years dumped me literally overnight. Blocked me on everything and took all of her stuff. I bought us rings and plane tickets to Puerto Rico to propose to her. That trip was supposed to happen this week.

The week after she left, I lost my job, started drinking and got a dui 2 days later. While I was in jail for 3 days, I found out my dad has cancer. Get out of jail and my phone was blown up cause my best friend had killed himself.

Everyday for the last 3 months has been a battle…

@jerolvilladolid 3 years ago

The absolute worst thing in a breakup is seeing your ex so happy with someone else. While you are undergoing the most horrible pain of your entire life

@extremosaur 3 years ago

It's hard when you see the value in the relationship, it's so clear to you, and they just don't see it.

@Opethfeldt 5 years ago

If something is meant to be, you won't have to force it. Sometimes a breakup is a blessing in disguise.

@GBARTH-nl6fu 1 year ago

Its sad when someone you know becomes someone you knew

@paulchongo9356 3 years ago (edited)

I never took it seriously when people talked about heartbreaks until it happened to me, the pain is sharp and deep almost unbearable,you wish you could run away from yourself for refugee but there is no way out and you end up sinking in sorrow struggling to breath with your eyes full of tears. But despite all this I will continue being a nice person I will never break a single heart❤ and I know for sure that with time I will heal and God will summon the angels to search for my soul mate.Anyone going through this Please be strong you are not alone God is by your side and one day you will get what you deserve ❤❤❤

@elfiera7588 5 years ago (edited)

I believe that what really affects people after a breakup is the idea of being alone and scared of not finding anybody else....

@Boogyboogy-wg3wt 3 years ago

Something I heard - "The hardest part of letting go, is accepting the fact that they already have."

@wizardofahhhs759 3 years ago

My wife and I didn't break up, she passed away after being together for 27 years, she was only 42 years old. But I'm going through the same feelings you experienced.

@kaefdmd 5 years ago

"You need to live your life as if you will never be with this person again."

Best advice yet its so hard to do :(

@MJA5 5 years ago

Those first couple times you break up, it's hard. Honestly, there's not a whole lot that people can tell you to make you feel better, especially if you're heads-over-heels with your squeeze. My dad always told me, "son, you'll feel better after a while, now go sweep out the shed row." There was a method to his madness, it was to keep me moving. Keep moving, you still have a life. Life goes on. Let it go. Letting go is cathartic. When she/he figures out you let it go, they'll want you back, but you won't care at that point, you have moved on. Begging, rationalizing, creeping, stalking, none of that will work, if it did, you wouldn't want what it will be after that anyway. Just let it go, my friends. You can't go backwards in time, life never moves in a straight line. You'll see, and you will be great.