Opposite personalities, similar values. That's the best.

"My friends tell me I have an intimacy problem, but they don't really know me" looooool

David is a beacon in a dark world where one man over long periods of time, gently retrieves what is redeemable in a human

My husband and I were together for 61 years. We had many years of "second love" and the last 5, when he had dementia and died  were the ones when we became one tree. And now, I am only half a tree.

You should mention dancing - couples dancing, as in dancing "with" someone as opposed to dancing "at" somewhat - dancing is like another language between the two people.  I could do another 500 words on this but just throwing in my 2 cents right now

Relax!  Fall in love! Be messy! Make mistakes!  For God’s sake- laugh at YOURSELF & ur own foibles.  U can do this while simultaneously being mindful of the world, your classes, grades etc.  Lighten up on yourself & u will be able to show grace & understanding to others & the world.  Uve got this!  After all u managed to get urself into Yale-

He isn't a priest.  He gathers ideas and presents them to you.  Much like how an actor portrays a character.  Plus, no questions were asked about falling out of love.  That would have been good to ask.

Love comes from an area in your heart where 2 souls meet; even if they have contrasting opinions, they recognise a like soul.

This should be re-marketed as a #MasterClass and be considered required material for all college students.

What an amazing talk by David Brooks on love. My partner and I were moved and held hands during parts of it that moved us to tears. So important that others watch and listen to what he says. Thank you David Brooks!

I have a feeling that Brooks is still internally litigating what he’s done with his relationships and marriage situation. These public talks are the visible icebergs.

This is absolutely the best and truest thing I have ever heard about love. I'm going to send this to my sons before they get married.

Can t stop recommending this.

I'm completely speechless....so unbelievably beautiful ❤

I think it's very brave to even approach the conversation in a lecture IT projects the genuine motive of Mr Brooks to educate because this is a huge aspect of every person's life ❤ adding to it to love someone is a choice you don't ever have to be with them to love .....just love them ....proceed it can all exist in the mind just the act itself is selfless and healthy on the same token maybe once in many lifetimes  you find that love exists in the eyes of someone else exclusively for you it's not about jealousy possession insecurities control chest beating egos.... Play Love is something different altogether....it's an absolute freedom devoid of a cage real love you can do no wrong when someone loves you in the real way in the right way they love all of you how you are not hinging on control love is appreciation to notice a wildflower experience all of its Wonder never picking it coveting or hoarding it ... No matter what story is ever told in this life or any other ... Love itself is the highest order one of the greatest gifts in life is to find a way to love all people because they are deserving

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Thank you, David Brooks! You have me dancing at the prospect of Love! Bless you!

A man who cheats on his wife with a much younger assistant knows about lust, not love.

I love you David Brooks.  Loved the intro and looking forward for this talk!~ Thank you for being you! 🌺🙏💖

I usually listen to YouTube while doing smth else, like cooking. These videos however make me want to stop and listen, make notes and process, search for the books and names that are referenced. Thank you!