Love the woman who said her loyalty is to the woman whose home is being wrecked and not the homewrecker.

My "best friend" who I had been friends with for 15 years stole my wedding jewelry, my wedding set, my earrings and my necklace.  We went on vaca and asked if she would water our plants and pick up our mail.  As we were traveling, I left all my jewelry behind in my gun safe.  Apparently she had watched me open it so knew the code.  When we came home I immediately went to get my wedding set out since I miss my rings and it was all gone.  We immediately checked the nanny cams we had set up before we left and there she is, pawing through all our dresser drawers, our jewelry chests and then she opens our gun safe and takes two handguns and my jewelry pouch all on the day we were due back.

We called the police, showed them the video and they immediately went and arrested her.  Fortunately she hadn't had time to get rid of anything so we got everything back.  She got lots of felonies and prison time...  Next time I hire a professional security firm to take care of my house when I go on vaca.

Got my "moving in the shadows" sweatshirt and celebrated my 72 bday with my besties of 30-40 years , it was SUPER GREAT ❤❤❤

I had a room mate move out without paying rent and she stole my video games case. A friend of mine and I calculated how much money the case was worth and let me tell you. Once you tell the family they owe you “$10,000” or they can send the case back without going to court. They “quickly” found the case and it was sent back in a week. I have a bunch of rare, vintage and collectors editions. I wasn’t about to be cheated from this roommate.

The girl at the end was SO WISE. "If you wouldn't say it to a friend, don't say it to yourself." Man, I need to write that down, frame it, and hang it next to the mirror I use to do my hair and make up. Damn. Thank you so much to her

Sneaky Sally story: If she's wearing the same outfit as the night before, minus the head scarf, the cops could have just pulled up footage from Tesco or the bars to cross reference the person with access and then the outfit to bring her in for questioning.

12:11 nah, the dude isn’t leaving his wife. They never do unless the wife kicks them out. He’ll tell the mistress that it’s going to happen next month, but then he wants to stay for another 2 months because it’ll be the last summer he can go on vacation together as a family, but then his wife “won’t sign the papers” and then he has to delay the divorce until after the holidays, and then… it never ends and everyone loses.

It is called shoulder surfing, when someone obtains sensitive information, such as passwords or PINs, by observing someone as they enter this data on a device.
I work in a financial institution and deal with scam cases. I also think it is super bad practice from the police to discourage victims from pursuing this further once the bank refunds, as if all has been resolved. The money the bank refunds, sure, comes from the bank's pockets and they might be deep, however, banks make their money off their clients. Don't forget that. So, in the end, all of us are paying (in fees and what not they can decide to increase) if more fraud is left for banks to cover and police drops out of its responsibility to pursue and punish crime - hold the criminal accountable for their deeds. It is so bad.

Does anyone else notice and love how charlotte nods along to people talking like they're acrually talking to her and she's engaged

When my husband was in college his roommates refused to wash their dishes. For a while he would only wash his and leave theirs but he finally got sick of it and threw all of their dishes away 🤣 they were pissed but never left dishes for him again.

Your words still ring true to this day.. "bagging a cheater is NOT a flex" 😂 that's wassup !

I had a roommate in grad school who made a BIG DEAL about SHARING FOOD. We both went shopping every week and had our own stuff, but STAPLES (eggs, sugar, coffee, flour, milk, rice, cereal, pasta, sauce, spices, etc.) were up for grabs if needed. Whenever I ate her food,  which was RARE, I would leave cash on the counter. A cup of rice and 1 egg? I'd leave $5. A pot of Folgers Coffee? I'd leave $5. My sister worked for Coach at the time; I gave roommate at LEAST 6 free Coach bags, a good $2k+ of merch. Sister upgraded to a designer clothing brand and would send me boxes of tagged clothes. EVERYTHING that didn't fit, at LEAST $4k of clothes, I gave my roommate. I'm NOT rich. I could've REALLY used the money from selling that stuff, but I wanted my best friend to have nice things while we were poor too. Tell me why this girl bought a mini-fridge and cabinet to hide ALL of her food in her room? I was not angry; I was CONFUSED, but she was a passive aggressive Midwesterner, and avoided the conversation.

The day I moved out to meet my man across the country, having paid in advance the next 3 months of rent I had committed to on the lease, she brought a box of cereal out of her hiding spot. I said, "May I have a bowl?" She goes, "I KNEW you would ask!" I ate my cereal quietly on the Lazy Boy sofa (that I bought and was leaving for her). Then I threw a $5 bill down onto the dining room set (that I bought and was leaving for her). I said, "This is for the cereal. Any FRIEND who begrudges me a bowl of Cheerios is NOT one I want to keep. Enjoy your $11K of free furniture, bags, and clothing. Goodbye."  She started to cry and say, "but you're my best friend!" I said, "Yeah, I thought you were mine too. That's why I gave you EVERYTHING I had, and in return for my generosity, you hid the SUGAR. If you're upset about something, use your WORDS. I'm not your boyfriend who's going to guess."

Stealing someone else's spouse doesn't make you look cool or desirable.
It shows that you don't respect yourself because why would you want to be with someone who isn't loyal? You won't change them.

30:43 my dad has always said “you never truly know someone till you live with them”

As a woman who grew up with a family that had me on a slimfast diet at age 10, who used to tell me I'd be so cute if I lost 10-15 lbs, who was told to "lay off the McDonald's", who is a recovering from an ED. That last video made me sob. We all need to hear that sometimes, especially as women.

Charlotte stuck in buffering mode at the audacity of this third lady. Bombastic.

The first woman's skin is perfect without makeup.  Ten years out of uni?  Mesmerizing

I had a roommate where she lived in my house and used my dishes and everything and totally fine.  I used 2-3 spoon fulls of her coffee and she asked me to replace the whole bag.  She claimed I used over half the bag.  I didn’t.  She told her fiancé and he talked to me. He is my best friends brother.  I told him that I only used a few spoonfuls and not half the large bag.  This was the first of series of lies and accusations and complaints. And of course the marriage ended after a year.

11:40 you loose them, the way you find them. They always say they are planning to leave the wife but they rarely do.

34:13 FOR THE RECORD!!! Living with your friends CAN WORK! You just have to thoroughly discuss and VOW that y’all will not become this statistic. It’s hard and a little rocky at first, but if you’re committed to your friendship above all else, IT CAN WORK! (Speaking from experience, still friends six years later)