Зачем ребенка учить угождать другим? / Екатерина Мурашова // Нам надо поговорить
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In the RTVI studio, Marianna Minsker and family psychologist Ekaterina Murashova discussed why it's important to instill the skill of pleasing in children. What is this from a psychological perspective? How can you teach a child to please if the adult doesn't have this skill? What's wrong with praise? Why should parents act on their own merits and do what's best for them, not their child? And does a child have a voice?
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00:00 "We Need to Talk." A Model Child
01:13 Why Should Children Please?
02:49 What Kind of People Do Children Taught to Please Grow Up to Be?
4:00 Why do parents raise children?
8:23 On Japanese parenting: "Until five, a king; after five, a slave"
2:20 PM "Normal people grow up everywhere"
4:30 PM What is pleasing?
6:22 PM How to teach pleasing?
7:50 PM What should an adult do if they haven't learned to please themselves?
29:50 What's wrong with likes and praise?
32:20 "If a person wasn't taught [to please], they may encounter it in adolescence"
34:55 PM Why should parents always start from their own perspective?
36:00 What's best for a child?
42:00 Children and gadgets
44:34 PM Do children have a voice?
46:19 Children and animals
50:19 PM Why is depression the biggest problem for teenagers?
54:04 Psychologist's recommendations
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Она не призывает наступать на собственное горло. Знать от чего конкретный человек балдеет, и делать ей приятно в соответствии со своими ценностями это круто!! Даже с целью получить что то.
Где проблема?
Это результат великолепной любви моей дочери к нему.
Ощущение что у меня украли жизнь, лучшие молодые годы
Конечно, уметь угодить не помешает. Лишним точно не будет.
Зачем ребенка учить угождать другим? / Екатерина Мурашова // Нам надо поговорить
НаучДок
175,150 views
Subscribe to the RTVI Telegram channel: https://t.me/rtvimain
In the RTVI studio, Marianna Minsker and family psychologist Ekaterina Murashova discussed why it's important to instill the skill of pleasing in children. What is this from a psychological perspective? How can you teach a child to please if the adult doesn't have this skill? What's wrong with praise? Why should parents act on their own merits and do what's best for them, not their child? And does a child have a voice?
Subscribe to @NauchDok and like us.
RTVI News — all the main events 24/7: myrtvi
00:00 "We Need to Talk." A Model Child
01:13 Why Should Children Please?
02:49 What Kind of People Do Children Taught to Please Grow Up to Be?
4:00 Why do parents raise children?
8:23 On Japanese parenting: "Until five, a king; after five, a slave"
2:20 PM "Normal people grow up everywhere"
4:30 PM What is pleasing?
6:22 PM How to teach pleasing?
7:50 PM What should an adult do if they haven't learned to please themselves?
29:50 What's wrong with likes and praise?
32:20 "If a person wasn't taught [to please], they may encounter it in adolescence"
34:55 PM Why should parents always start from their own perspective?
36:00 What's best for a child?
42:00 Children and gadgets
44:34 PM Do children have a voice?
46:19 Children and animals
50:19 PM Why is depression the biggest problem for teenagers?
54:04 Psychologist's recommendations