Raising boys can be challenging. How many children does she have? With her affluence, can't her kids live with her if that is possible? Where there is a stepmother involved, she can do what is possible to care for them herself and have joint custody. ..imagine ! This video is evidence of a possible court hearing. I understand raising boys is tough . What about schools with boarding houses where various forms of discipline are applied, not necessarily corporal punishment. If the children are Laide's future as she said, she needs to be more proactive. .