For a 19 year old young woman, she is mature with a good head on her shoulders and she definitely deserves more than a controlling, over protective man in her life.
This couple still has work to do if they want to survive. I’ve noticed a few things: 🚩Luca’s insecurity and possesiveness could potentially jeopardize this relationship on the outside. He needs to work on that tbh. 🚩Their communication is not great. Ex: On one hand Luca didn’t admit he was upset during the challenge and then when Gemma gets pissed at him and he asks if she’s alright…she replies “yeah, I’m fine” when clearly she isn’t. Little things like that harm the relationship. 🚩Luca projects his expectations: ex he does not allow compromising situations with girls that could cause problems with Gemma and he expects her to do the exact thing for him, but Gemma does her thing while having boundaries (Luca slept alone in Casa, doesn’t flirt or has physical contact with girl that could be misinterpreted) -Their love language is very different. He is touchy feely and she has still lots of walls there. 🚩Gemma has used disrespectful terms several times to refer to Luca. Also, she always tells him he was not sexy during challenges…imagine if it was the other way around…her confidence will be affected to a degree. Luca has also been disrespectful to her and pushed her during the challenge.
The thing is, hes right to feel the way he feels. He knows what he signed up for that's why he tries not to be angry about it. The only reason why she can get away with licking som1, is cos of love island. Naturally they're all humans so he wont wna see it. So really n truly she should be more understanding of that. But because their love language is different. Shes never going to show she understand or provide reassurance for these small things. Even if she should atleast show that she understands. But because that's not naturally how she is and she seems quite emotionless, It has to be something big for her to show any emotion. And she aint gna provide him with any of the above. Which is why even the small things can create a big argument with them. Because they're love language is different. He's not really wrong, but he needs to articulate himself better.
he was trying to say that he was upset, so went off, released it was the challenge and he's good now, he over it . he's not in a mood cause he knows it's not her fault. she wanted him to say he IS in a mood NOW, which he said he's NOT
Luca is allowed to express his own feelings and so is she. Just because he’s a man everyone is saying he’s being to possessive. In my opinion yes sometimes the things he says / does there is no need for it but she also speaks to him like shit but nothing gets said about this. Both can be in the wrong at times.
Luca= Immature little boy. Possessive & jealously. He has a lot of growing up to do. Gemma= 19 years old, mature beyond her years. Capable of having an adult conversation however she chose the worst moment to bring up her grievances against baby boy Luca.
Yes Luca is allowed to express his feelings but so is Gemma. She simply wanted to have a conversation to discuss openly & honestly Luca’s reaction.
Interesting couple. Red flags 🚩 arising over Luca’s reaction. Jealousy is a sign of insecurity.
Is okay for him to be upset …. As long as he got over it immediately 🤷♀️, is normal for your partner to be jealous not the extreme jealousy. She should ve just let it be 🤦♀️
F**K OFF GEMMA! LUCA loses it with GEMMA on Love Island FOOTAGE
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F**K OFF GEMMA! LUCA loses it with GEMMA on Love Island FOOTAGE