How to Get Help When Someone You Love Won’t Change | Julie Lanphear (EP 39)
Leonne Sherr
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The Person Who Gets Help Is the One Who Sees the Need:
Julie Lanphear spent years watching her husband's health come apart under job stress, and then watching him reach for prescriptions and alcohol to steady himself, and for most of that time she believed the only thing that would fix her life was him getting better. She sat in a library one afternoon because she could not bring the books home, and she read a sentence that changed the direction of everything, which was that the person to get help is the person who sees the need for help.
In this conversation Julie talks about what it actually took to go get that help, including the night she asked a friend to invite her to dinner so she would have something to tell her husband about where she had been, and what she found when she finally walked into a room she had been calling the club nobody wants to join. She talks about learning that happiness is an inside job, about putting the locus of control back on herself, and about why she now believes that help is everywhere and that there are at least a hundred solutions to any problem.
Julie is the founder of Julie Lanphear Coaching, and she brings more than twenty five years across education, healthcare, leadership and coaching to the work of helping people find their footing when life throws changes they did not ask for.
Some of what we cover:
Why you do not have to have the whole map, only your next brave step
What it means to hold space for someone without handing them advice they cannot use
Why repressed feelings surface in the grocery store and on client calls, and why that is survivable
Why she starts with people one on one before she ever invites them into community
The question that starts everything, which is whether you are willing to be willing
Connect with Julie Lanphear
julielanphear.com
linkedin.com/in/julie-lanphear
The WonderMama Coffee Chat goes live every Wednesday on Facebook, and afterward we drop into a private conversation inside The WonderMama Place with the women of our community.
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How to Get Help When Someone You Love Won’t Change | Julie Lanphear (EP 39)
Leonne Sherr
40 views
The Person Who Gets Help Is the One Who Sees the Need:
Julie Lanphear spent years watching her husband's health come apart under job stress, and then watching him reach for prescriptions and alcohol to steady himself, and for most of that time she believed the only thing that would fix her life was him getting better. She sat in a library one afternoon because she could not bring the books home, and she read a sentence that changed the direction of everything, which was that the person to get help is the person who sees the need for help.
In this conversation Julie talks about what it actually took to go get that help, including the night she asked a friend to invite her to dinner so she would have something to tell her husband about where she had been, and what she found when she finally walked into a room she had been calling the club nobody wants to join. She talks about learning that happiness is an inside job, about putting the locus of control back on herself, and about why she now believes that help is everywhere and that there are at least a hundred solutions to any problem.
Julie is the founder of Julie Lanphear Coaching, and she brings more than twenty five years across education, healthcare, leadership and coaching to the work of helping people find their footing when life throws changes they did not ask for.
Some of what we cover:
Why you do not have to have the whole map, only your next brave step
What it means to hold space for someone without handing them advice they cannot use
Why repressed feelings surface in the grocery store and on client calls, and why that is survivable
Why she starts with people one on one before she ever invites them into community
The question that starts everything, which is whether you are willing to be willing
Connect with Julie Lanphear
julielanphear.com
linkedin.com/in/julie-lanphear
The WonderMama Coffee Chat goes live every Wednesday on Facebook, and afterward we drop into a private conversation inside The WonderMama Place with the women of our community.
TheWonderMama.com
skool.com/the-wondermama-cycle-breakers-5827/about
#TheWonderMama #TheWonderMamaCommunity