I was with a boy for all of my 20s. Played the role of his mom. Paid 50/50. He was my 1st, unfortunately. And even with that the sex was boring. The conversation never had growth.

WELL, at 28 I said I’m not giving him ANY of my 30s and started PLANNING MY ESCAPE. When I was ready and saved up enough I was SILENT. And left!

My NOW husband, married me within 6mos. We went on to have 2beautiful children and my little boy EX- is still upset about me leaving him so smoothly.

LEAVE LADIES! Get yourself together mentally/physically and prepare for your man to FIND YOU!

DONT LET YOUR SORRY BOYFRIEND hide you from YOUR BIG PROVIDING HUSBAND!!!!

I commend these beauties for reaching out and seeking answers to their dilemma’s

Alot of women know the answers. Its like they need someone else to say it out loud.

We often take on the roles of a mother. He’s old enough to make his own doctors appointment. Girlfriend is not a real title to me. At some point, a man should be dating/courting for marriage. Stop playing with these mommas boy and entertain only intentional men. His momma should’ve showed him how to do the basics

They BOTH settled too quick! Date (not sleep) multiple men ESPECIALLY in your 20s!!

The first girl. If she lost her v card with him or abstinence and broke it for him then its more she dont want to feel that disappointment that she gave in to him and now its ending at the year mark. I will tell her ITS OKAY. YOU LEARNED SOOO MANY  LESSONS. ASK GOD TO FORGIVE AND HELP YOU WITH DISCERNMENT AND THE STRENGTH TO WALK AWAY FROM THE RED FLAGS. AND LIVE YOUR BEST LIFE. love these lives keep helping these young girls Ashley

Caution ⚠️ Young Women, do not waste Ur prime time, before( 30) taking care of a Grown Man, without A Commitment to Marriage!!

01:55 Baby girl you are at an age where you should have a man treating you like a princess. He may be super nice, but he doesn't give you the care you deserve, there is no point being a mother for a grown man. Don't be Ms Build-A-Man, becoming an apprentice therapist learning to diagnose him(it rarely ends well). It probably hurts to have invested so much (plus the milestone you eluted to) but just go back to building yourself and expand your options. Forgive yourself, find something else to focus on. All the best !

Love what Ashley said:

“It’s time to re-introduce yourself to yourself”

GOLDEN

I had a dream of my bf cheating . Later on i discovered that he was cheating .

He’s 32 and you’re making his appointments. No. Stop.

LADIES, WE GOTTA STOP BABYING THESE MEN…NO MATTER HOW SWEET THEY ARE. STOP INVESTING IN WHAT’S NOT INVESTING IN YOU

These dudes will make you a maid mattress and a mule with the quickness… and some remain that way until end! Run run run!

Just left a relationship just like this. I spent my entire 20s with that man. I’m now 29 and have been single for only 2 months and the only thing I wish was that I left a longggg time ago. No matter what you do he is not going to change. Get out now.

Sounds like she lost her virginity to him. That "milestone" that she never hit with anyone else ... she got a soul tie.

Ladies please don’t look at marriage as the ultimate goal of ur life

I was in a long 10 year relationship with a gamer in my 20s and had these exact problems. I looked old, drained and defeated. Deep down we know we are betraying ourselves but sometimes we are in denial. It drains you. I finally realized I deserved way better, I walked away and immediately had a glow in my skin. I lost 30 pounds (I was very overweight) and felt a load off my chest. I started to travel, date and experienced GOOD SEX. I've been single for 6 years and finally feel love for myself I've never felt before. I found myself. In my 30s now and it breaks my heart seeing my old pics. I regret not walking away sooner. Best of luck my friend.

Her voice reminds me of nicki Minaj

"You need to put yourself back on the pedestal" "bring back that energy by focusing on you"
Words to live by❤ Thank you as always for the gems 💎

Moral of the story is all old as day itself. Save the best of you for marriage. We already know if they wanna marry a woman and if years and years go by and youre being a wife as a GF you're the one being played.