Anyone that says they are in the kink community and immediately ignores boundaries like that is an IMMEDIATE red flag!

the "friendzone" is just a polite way of saying "this woman saw me as a person, but to me she's just a hole"

“Women hate when you’re nice to them!”
Or… we’re just smart enough to know when your “niceness” is transactional.

I used to wonder why I couldn't find a good man.  Then I stopped worrying about it, and then I stopped looking, and then I started dating my best friend from high school and realized she's way better than any man.

The 8:00 guy, omg, that should actually put him in jail. He's a violent person committing a hate crime, and will go on to hurt or kill someone, if he hasn't already. She's a 'subhuman animal' because she won't do bdsm porn with him??? And he says 'death to her'?? For 'disrespecting him'??? no. just no. crime. jail.

we all know how you lose a woman. you forget to cherish her.

2:05 If I had a donut for every time a nice guy compared women to food, I'd be able to start my own Dunkin franchise

All they need to do is GO OUTSIDE. Most people are average looking. Most people in relationships are average looking. Because that’s what average means. Most of us are regular people who will be with other regular people. If you pick the right one, they’re no longer average because in your eyes they’re the best

A friend of mine recently told me that they've got romantic feelings for me. They told me, because they want to be open and clear about things. They also made sure I know that there is no pressure to reciprocate any feelings and that they're perfectly happy with things between us staying the way they are. They emphasised that they know how I'm struggling with the topic of romantic attraction at the moment and that it's totally okay for me to not know what I feel, that I should take all the time I need to figure things out etc, but if I ever feel like I want for them to be part of this figuring out process, they'd love to. It was a very pleasant conversation that made me appreciate them as a person and as a friend even more than I already did. That's how someone who truly loves you handles being ""friendzoned"", because they'll want what's best for you and genuinely enjoy being in your life regardless (doesn't mean of course, that it can't sting sometimes when you have feelings for someone in a way they don't reciprocate, that's okay, but if it truly is love for the person, then that stinging should be overshadowed by being happy to see them living their best and most authentic life)

"women only like bad guys" also victim blames people who are in horrible relationships

Being a plus size woman in my experience so many "nice guys"  think they are doing you a massive favour by being with you or being seen on a date or in public with you so dont think they need to put effort in. They also think we all ahve low self esteem and as soon as we show the slightest confience we are called delusional and crazy x

Im literally only 3 minutes in and I can tell these guys don't know anything about women or food because they're calling that "ugly" donut unattractive and gross, but those are LITERALLY the best donuts. They have incredible flavor, the glaze is always perfect, they're never too dense or too soft. Just bad takes all around lol

I'm a guy: there isn't a male "loneliness" epidemic, there's a male entitlement epidemic

Nice Guys; "Why can't I find a girl freind 😭😭😭"

Have you considered not treating the people you want to date with utter contempt?

Nice guys: 🤬🤬🤬

"I'm building something real" has big "I STUDIED THE BLADE" energy.

When I think of "male loneliness" all I can think of is men who say they're lonely and sad because women won't jump in bed with them every 5 seconds or get rejected when they demand "pictures"

Male loneliness = no 🥜 everyday

The woman with a dozen men on her mind vs the man with one woman is so much an "OKAY, JARED, JUST BECAUSE BECKY CHEATED ON YOU IT DOES NOT MEAN ALL WOMEN WILL CHEAT ON YOU" moment.

Im an autistic guy who has been in boyfriend girlfriend relationships with 4 girls, i’m 16, 3 out of 4 of them confessed to me first, the one who I had confessed to was a girl who is my childhood bestfriend that I had been crushing on for 6 years then, we are still close friends and are platonic now though.

I’m a gamer, weeabo, and I’m no good at school, but I still get girls and I watch these videos and am reminded why.

Genuinely, what the hell is going in other guys heads?? My older brother is honestly like this, he is an attractive guy but him as a person genuinely sucks.

thing is, IS there a "loneliness epidemic?" yes! most ppl have to work such long hours to barely scrape by, and our "third places" are limited, and if you're still being covid safe that's a whole extra layer of difficulty. capitalism has crushed our lives into productivity and no one has time to find friends, relationships, etc.

the reason we're seeing it couched in terms of "male loneliness" is bc, unlike cis (esp straight, esp white) men, most ppl don't expect the world to cater to them and serve them love and romance and support just for existing. everyone's lonely! it's not women doing it!!

2:23 That's not an old gross donut, that's an old fashioned donut, those things are delicious