Soooo a bunch if women telling other women to stay single cuz they had shitty taste in men and got burned…
Single women really do keep women single.
If “all men are the same” by that logic “all women are the same” and I know plenty of awful women who are nothing like me.
Ya’ll are too impressionable and single minded to see a few women make a poor pick and choose to just abstain from marriage as a whole.

I got divorced in 2008 and never remarried.. it's so true that it's the death of a thousand cuts that leads to a divorce

"oh, you're breaking us up over nothing!"
Yep. Guess so. Bye!

I'm watching this as a single women never married, to remind myself girl, your freedom is priceless 😂

My sperm donor wanted my mom to give up her job and stay at home. She refused and even stayed firm through heavy physical and emotional abuse by him. When she left him, she was still financially stable enough to raise three small children on her own.
I always say that the first words out of my mouth were "do not become dependent on a man" because my mom made damn sure that I know to always be independent, whether it's skills or finances or friends.

These men usually show red flags before they actually walk down the aisle. Don’t ignore red flags 🚩🚩🚩

Do not ever legally marry! Keep your own back accounts too! It cost me a lot of money to get rid of that bum

I am a single woman. Now I understand why I see men in the grocery store on their phone being directed around the store being told what to buy. So sad! I am glad I don't have a manchild to direct.

You cannot be a good person and be good father but be a bad husband at the same time.  Just my opinion!

I feel the woman on the "Death by a thousand cuts" quote. It was SEVERAL things, big and small, that destroyed my marriage over time, over years. What really did it in was my ex husband throwing his face through a wall when I told him that I didn't want to go on a vacation with him when he's refused to get therapy for YEARS and makes us both miserable everyday. I knew the wall would be my face/body given enough time. I didn't give it time. I separated from him and divorced him within that calendar year.

Divorced from a soldier in 2019 and it literally saved my life. Thank goodness we had no kids and my name was on our dogs paperwork. He tried to threaten to steal my dog when he found out I was on a vacation post divorce. He ended up adopting a dog from a shelter to prove a point and then dumping it back in a shelter a few months later. The day our divorce cleared he remarried a new woman!! Dragged her around and tried to hit me up and drunkenly cheat on her (I ignored her msgs). He promised to go to therapy if we got married if we had issues but once we got married he refused and said he liked the way he is. Well 8 yrs later and he took his life. On god if I fought to stay I feel like he would have taken me out, "alpine divorce" divorce style. I am still healing from the abuse, unpacking so much gaslighting and healing my view on myself. I hope young women never fall for this, a man is not a plan!!! Even if he is a knight in shining armor, you have to carry your own sword and shield and not expect that man to always be there. Pleaaass e focus on independence even within a relationship, if not for your sake than for your kids sake.

I was at my mother in laws when she asked her son to takeout the garbage for her. (She had a husband). My X knocked, tipped the bin all over the drive way. Of course everyone came out to see what the noise was about. He failed to had fallen over. The whole family came out to  tidy the mess. On the way home, I asked if he was really ok. He laughed and told me. If you really don’t want to do something, then you do it SO badly, they’ll never ask you to do it again!!!
I realised how many times he had done that to me. 😱🐶🇦🇺

1:16 I never understand how a woman can enter into a relationship with a man who abandons their wives and children for them... he's literally proving to you that he can't be trusted and he doesn't care about his children. It boggles my mind...what kinda nonsense love is that!

That part!!" Men will do things for u, while doing messed up things to u" that is a fact!! I was married for 30 years!!

Officially divorced in January! Ten years of indentured servitude! He weaponized his incompetence and kept me powerless, penniless and pregnant. Always have your own money!

I divorced 2011 , raised both kids and now they are adults in their 22 and 21.
I never remarried, I never got into any serious relationship. I have no energy no motivation. Only 25 years left on this planet and want to pass these years thru in peace

We didn't waste the best years of our lives like the young lady said about her mom. We are living the best years of our lives NOW after the divorce. 😊 We are also able to warn younger women so they don't get trapped like we did. The main reason my ex got his evil hooks in me was because I didn't have any women in my life who talked to me about the dangers of men. I was the good girl getting good grades in school, so they just assumed I'd figure it out. Didn't work out like that.

Totally! I felt so lonely in my relationship in those 14 years. I wished I could have left. Somehow it froze me that he said if the relationship ends I will never see him again. My ex only started to try the things that I was asking him for years at the end of the relationship. And even then he called me selfish and narcissistic for wanting the relationship to end. Now my tinnitus is even gone. 😊

My husband and I ran a business. He was terrible about any details. When he forgot appointments and jobs with customers they would ask me why something wasn’t done by him. The men expected me to offer excuses as to why he wasn’t doing what was expected or promised by him. As a wife I had to cover for him and other men expected me to answer for his screwups. Eventually I quit being his wife and work partner. I wasn’t going to cover for him anymore after 25 years. I have never remarried but he did. He couldn’t function without a woman to cover for him.

I have never been married and I never will. I’ve heard too many stories from women and had too many disappointing experiences with men to know that marriage is going to make me unhappy.