"Just because they're close to you, does that mean I can forgive them for everything?"
Have you ever felt that way?
Many people believe that the closer the relationship, the better.
In reality, this isn't the case.
People close to us are often at odds with us because we're so close.
Specifically, what makes it hard to forgive?
We've discussed this in detail.
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▼Table of Contents▼
00:00 Today's Theme: Things you should never forgive, even with close friends
00:34 ① Denial of someone you care about
02 :40 ② Treating you like you're their own
05:02 ③ Leading to major damage
07:34 ④ Invasion of privacy
09:39 ⑤ Taking up too much of your time
12:24 ⑥ Being treated conveniently
14:36 ⑦ Denial of values
17:02 Summary: Don't tolerate your frustrations for too long
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About this channel
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This channel is dedicated to discussing your concerns and solving them from the perspective of a counselor and advisor.
Thank you for your understanding.
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Thank you for your support.
#Relationships
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"Just because they're close to you, does that mean I can forgive them for everything?"
Have you ever felt that way?
Many people believe that the closer the relationship, the better.
In reality, this isn't the case.
People close to us are often at odds with us because we're so close.
Specifically, what makes it hard to forgive?
We've discussed this in detail.
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YouTube Membership
━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━
-- Exclusive videos on family, parent-child relationships, and human relationships. Watch them all + receive daily words of insight.
Join YouTube here
▶@cocoyowa
▼Table of Contents▼
00:00 Today's Theme: Things you should never forgive, even with close friends
00:34 ① Denial of someone you care about
02 :40 ② Treating you like you're their own
05:02 ③ Leading to major damage
07:34 ④ Invasion of privacy
09:39 ⑤ Taking up too much of your time
12:24 ⑥ Being treated conveniently
14:36 ⑦ Denial of values
17:02 Summary: Don't tolerate your frustrations for too long
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Coco Magazine: A consultation and learning service
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[Coco Magazine ⇒ A service where you can learn more about human relationships and get advice]
An exclusive e-book is also available. If you'd like to learn with Ryota, please check it out.
For more details, please visit: https://lounge.dmm.com/detail/8557/in...
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[Kokoreta ⇒ Sign up for free and receive heartwarming words at least twice a month]
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Related, educational videos
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【実は友達ではない】有害な友人の特徴7パターン/会う度に傷つく関係性になっていませんか?
【周りにいると危険】フレネミーの特徴/友達を装う敵の考えていることがこれ
【距離を置くべき!】決して友達にしてはいけない人物の特徴/近い関係だからトラブルが増...
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Ryota's books
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▶Click here for a list of his books
https://brweb.jp/ryota_book/
★Click here for his new book, "The Book of the Friendly Lone Wolf"
https://www.amazon.co.jp/dp/B0FJWV1G5Z
━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━
Ryota's Social Media Accounts and Blog
━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━
●Ryota's Lifestyle and Column Blog
https://brweb.jp/
●A Blog to Help Highly Sensitive People and Highly Sensitive People Live Better [Cocoyowa]
https://cocoyowa.com/
● Instagram
Instagram: ryo_shigoto
● stand.fm (Radio - Learn from the Morning)
https://stand.fm/channels/5f5c6ddcf04...
● Voicy (Radio - Talks about Lifestyle, Lifestyle, and Mental Health)
https://voicy.jp/channel/1959
● Threads
https://www.threads.net/@ryo_shigoto
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Brief Profile
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Ryota
Born in 1984. He is a licensed mental health counselor and behavioral psychologist, and has acquired interpersonal skills from working in manufacturing and teaching for over 15 years. He also leverages his university studies of music healing, psychology, and ethics to start a counseling business.
He currently writes and communicates, primarily about interpersonal issues.
●Click here for detailed profile information
https://brweb.jp/profile/
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About this channel
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This channel is dedicated to discussing your concerns and solving them from the perspective of a counselor and advisor.
Thank you for your understanding.
Disclaimers and other information are also listed in the channel description. Please take a look.
Thank you for your support.
#Relationships
#CloseFriends
#Friends
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