Alright i might've hid something after the outro 🤭
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"The divorce came out of nowhere I really don't know what happened"
BRUH 😐

I feel like not knowing your kid’s birthday is deeper than people realize.  Like not only do you not know when your child came into the world but you also therefore don’t bother to remember when the mother of your child when through labor to do so

I was married to someone like that. He could do NOTHING. He didn't know how to operate a washing machine or put dishes in a dishwasher. He thought he was the greatest because he was an engineer. Unfortunately, I got pregnant unplanned. Which didn't make things any better. I was in labor for over 20 hours, had an induction, vomited in pain, had stitches... When his colleague called him, he said something like "The baby? Well, it's a girl (he preferred a boy). - My wife? Oh, she'll be fine. She screamed like a madwoman. Haha. But I am so tired! That was so exhausting. Good thing I'm on parental leave now (we live in Germany). Then I can go sailing again." ... 6 days after the birth I fainted because I (young and stupid) tried to do the housework alone while he was sailing. Severe internal bleeding, 2 days in the ICU and an angry doctor yelling at my ex-husband to grow up XD

The last guy is so exhausting. A marriage is NOT an exchange! It thrives on both parties trying to give it their all and be their most caring self to their partner. It doesn't mean you don't have bad days or arguments, but this type of "I'll do this in exchange for this" attitude is giving roommate NOT a healthy marriage.

I used to work at a retail pharmacy. The dad did not know the child’s date of birth 9 times out of 10.

“Can you do the dishes for me before you die?” 🥺🎀👉🏻👈🏻

Why do they have random trash lying around? By trash I mean the husband(s)

Edit: oop this comment was made really long ago, btw ik no one was asking but to clarify not all partners are bad, specifically the ones in this video

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the fact that my dad has 4 kids, knows everyones birthdays, everyones grand-kids birthdays and aware of what everyone wants for a bday never seems that special...im thankful

I’m just wondering how these men manage to get married. Even my situationships and all my platonic friends treat me better

This is actually so sad all those wives deserve better

You know what’s funny is men that say “you’re not my mom” comments, usually also wanna be babied and want you to do things for them as if you’re their mom. Example; like him not cleaning and helping and wanting her to do everything, like a mom.

May these relationships NEVER find us

My mom raised 3 kids, homeschooled us all, kept the home clean and running, managed the finances, and helped keep the farm running but anytime she asked for any small thing my sperm donor would say “what are you going to do for me?” 🤮 idk how she made it 29 years but I was so happy when she finally divorced him.

i pray these types of relationships never find any of us.

nice to see so many kind people in the comments :) also hello all you tøp fans!

"the cat THE CAT" "WHY DONT YOU GO THROW THAT DAMN TRASH AT UR HUSBAND NOT YOUR CAT!!"  is so real bro😭

My man woke up one morning and told me he needed a drink because he didn’t feel good. I got my sleepy ass up and went and got it. He was so happy and woke up, ready to own the day :)

One night I got off work after a terribly emotional day and got back to his place. I was sad, hungry and being a bitch lol. He hugged me, took me to tacobell and took care of me like the great man he is!

Love is a two way street

This is part of the reason why I have no desire to have a relationship. If I’m going to be angry about someone’s stupidity, laziness, and incompetence, it’s going to be my own!

If a man told me I’m not his mom, I’d just stop doing everything. I’d order myself food, only for me. Clean up only after myself

I also labored and gave birth alone with my first. He told me he’d be there. I labored for 24 hours and throughout the day I was texting him updates. He ghosted me. Turns out he didn’t just have one side girl, he had 5. It was heartbreaking as I didn’t have any family show up and visit either. But I’ve been made a strong woman because of it and 6 years later I have my own home, my career, a husband who treats me well and helps clean, and a daughter on the way so it does get better.