Zor İnsanlar Kimdir ve Onlarla Nasıl Baş Edebiliriz?
Dr. Gülcan Özer | İnsan Halleri
116,698 views
In this video, Psychiatrist Dr. Gülcan Özer explores the concept of "difficult people" in the context of everyday relationships, professional life, and our personal history. This concept, sometimes shaped by personality disorders and sometimes simply by coercive attitudes, encompasses a wide spectrum of issues, from behaviors that undermine trust and boundary violations to demanding relationships and the use of force. She discusses this with diverse examples.
In a candid conversation informed by experience, she explains how feelings of relationship strain align with our personal schemas, how to cope with challenging people, and the importance of maintaining distance in the face of sometimes unchangeable challenges.
This video serves as a guide for anyone seeking to understand themselves in difficult relationships and individuals, establish healthy boundaries, and evaluate challenges from a different perspective.
00:00 Who is a difficult person?
3:40 How should difficult people be dealt with?
5:20 Can the definition of a difficult person be considered intertwined with personality disorders? 6:00 Difficult definitions of social media
7:20 Difficulties faced within the hierarchy - helplessness
11:35 What's difficult for us is people
12:15 Definition of social media: narcissistic attitude
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Zor İnsanlar Kimdir ve Onlarla Nasıl Baş Edebiliriz?
Dr. Gülcan Özer | İnsan Halleri
116,698 views
In this video, Psychiatrist Dr. Gülcan Özer explores the concept of "difficult people" in the context of everyday relationships, professional life, and our personal history. This concept, sometimes shaped by personality disorders and sometimes simply by coercive attitudes, encompasses a wide spectrum of issues, from behaviors that undermine trust and boundary violations to demanding relationships and the use of force. She discusses this with diverse examples.
In a candid conversation informed by experience, she explains how feelings of relationship strain align with our personal schemas, how to cope with challenging people, and the importance of maintaining distance in the face of sometimes unchangeable challenges.
This video serves as a guide for anyone seeking to understand themselves in difficult relationships and individuals, establish healthy boundaries, and evaluate challenges from a different perspective.
00:00 Who is a difficult person?
3:40 How should difficult people be dealt with?
5:20 Can the definition of a difficult person be considered intertwined with personality disorders? 6:00 Difficult definitions of social media
7:20 Difficulties faced within the hierarchy - helplessness
11:35 What's difficult for us is people
12:15 Definition of social media: narcissistic attitude