Raja, before you finish uni, make sure you already got job, even better in coorperate. Pay back your parents and always refuse to go back home, just keep sending them money
Raja said his situation is legal, but also mentioned his dad having control of his SFE. That didn’t sound super legal to me. He should go speak to citizens advice and student services to get help with extricating himself financially.
I couldn’t tell if it was scripted at first but I feel bad for Raja 😭 this happens and I feel like he needs solid advice. Forced marriages are haram, I think he should try involve other family members to back him if he can 😭 even if he creates ‘drama’ it’s worth ur freedom. And he deserves his own money back so maybe he should change the account details, or even for his second year of uni if he’s not able to. If worse comes to worse , there is support in uni for having no relationship w ur parents I think ?
Raja, don't listen to ur parent, ur not doing anything wrong, force marriage isnt allowed anyways, let ur parents be upset etc, find someone u want, marry them and theyll come round, also dont listen to these and ruin so many lives by an affair, ik u wont do that cause you already said its haraam etc, just stand ur ground, and idk if you can somehow get ur student finace from them, if its in ur name etc, dont give into pressure especially if u know u wont be able to love their choice of a wife, cousin marriage is allowed but many choose not to and thats fine too, everyone has a preference. Good luck, hope u stay strong and stand ur ground, many men and women go through this so dont worry, leave if u have to if it gets too toxic and make dua.