This whole "wedding system" is absolutely crazy in this day and age. Dump these inlaws--distance is the best remedy. One must always be on guard against unscrupulous people who are looking to take advantage.
Dumb boy if you truly love a women and believe she loves you you should be honest and don't listen to anyone if you marry someone there is only one family your boths i told my girlfriends all the time only if I am sure you will met my mom only one girl in thirty years achieved it and I am still with her my own brothers told her he never brought a girl home unlike my dumb brothers my mom always bring your girlfriend home to everyone of us four but only two of us are so dumb everytime they brought a new girl my mom thought they would be her daughter in law my mom said how is it possible I had so many girls and never brought them to our house my brothers met them sometimes outside but never in our house they told my mom and she looked at me and ask why I don't bring them home I told her if I don't think I marry her I don't show them it's not necessary 😂😂 boys if you really want to be with a girl forever than you bring them home and if anyone treat her bad you stand up I am five years now with true love of my life after 18 months I told my mom I want to marry her and brought her home and what can I say my whole family loves her more than me😂😂
I Returned the Bride Price—Then His Sister Wore My Wedding Gold