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4 Signs a Narcissist Just Lost — For Real This Time | Narcissism

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4 Signs a Narcissist Just Lost — For Real This Time | Narcissism

Real defeat doesn't look like an apology — it looks like silence, sudden distance, and a facade that stops working the way it used to. When a narcissist can no longer manipulate, control, or provoke a reaction out of you, the mask cracks in specific, predictable ways. This video breaks down four signs that show you've actually gotten through their armor, not just triggered another round of the same old tactics.

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20 Comments

@Alishba-u7f 8 hours ago

For anyone who struggles with racing thoughts and constantly expecting something to go wrong, Anwen Reid’s anxiety quiz might help make those patterns easier to recognize.

@SA-ud9nf 2 days ago

Another thing is, narcissist cater to those who are mean to, not just passive people who tolerate them but they reject those who are kind people.

@susanclancy5052 1 day ago

I made the mistake of letting my narcissist boyfriend know that I had figured him out and that I recognized all the gaslighting, hoovering, and controlling behavior. I told him never to contact me again and blocked him everywhere.
On September 6 he was stopped by police because his license plate didn't match the vehicle he was driving. He was on his way to terrorize me. A search of his car found an illegal firearm and crossbow. He was arrested and is waiting for his court case. I'm very frightened about what he will do when he gets out.

@AnnahMcDaniel-g2h 11 days ago

I rid myself of two narcs that I was born to. I saved my own life and now am healing myself. They have no space in my life. There has been sexual, emotional incest, physical violence, emotional violence. They were cold and empty because of the abuse they both endured as children. I finally stopped the generational violence and pain with my own kids that are now adults. We are all close and happy in our own ways and will always continue working on being the best people we can be. You can escape horrific parents and situations!

@CosmicCat23 20 hours ago

Some are much more talented than to have outburst. They dish out their anger in small mean doses, out of sight of anyone else. When you finally break, they will point out how you have an anger problem and can’t control your emotions, all while pretending how you got to that point wasn’t real.

@SA-ud9nf 2 days ago (edited)

Wow is that why I see some people cut off people and go out of town? Another thing, is that why some people cater to those who don't call out their fabrications and not cater to those who do? I thought it was me and thought maybe I need to be like the one they cater to and keep helping them and ignoring their meanness and not call them out but the person they cater to who had no boundaries is a drinker, keeps their feelings inside and they continue to visit that person and blow me off. You just opened my eyes to that.

@Ingrid-ew7hj 12 days ago (edited)

I had to save my elder years from my 40 year old adopted narcissist daughter. I made the mistake of facing her with my feelings that she needed help and I would pay for it. She went ballistic accusing me of the abuse she was responsible for giving me all these years. I went no contact and then she claimed she would not be talking to me until I learned how to be a good mother. So be it. It's been about a year and I'm healing just fine and enjoying life again. Unfortunately that means I've lost connection with my 6 year old grandson. That is the only thing that saddens me. I'm free now of the bullying and all that goes with a narcissist. Yay!

@randybarnes6426 6 days ago

I just experienced this behavior ! I’ve cut off all access to this person ! As I saw the writing on the wall ! Now they are putting out a smear campaign ! Which proves , she is a narcissist! And I’ve told others this is the pattern and a perfect example ! I say nothing of her character and move on ! With beware to those I talk with ! Just beware

@ChrisK-c5g 5 days ago

I just raise my day labor rates for narcissists who "need me" I become even more transactional with every second of my time. no arguments no conflict. thanks for the pay, have a nice day. see you next time.

@ReclaimingLife100 2 days ago

Yes I can confirm with my ex, that's true.

@indupradeep5288 5 days ago

True words god bless you 🙏❤️🤣❤️💯💐

@FurqanHameed-e7d 12 days ago

Manifesting always seemed to come naturally to everyone except me. I tried so many different methods, but nothing ever really clicked. Then I took Amara Lorne arche type quiz, and my result explained a lot. It finally gave me an approach that felt personal instead of generic. Worth a try if you’re struggling with the same thing ❤️

@away2020-o9q 6 days ago

Thank you I experienced this after a 29 yr narc hell marriage and was confused at first then finally In love with there silence. 6 yrs later he stalks now but won’t speak so strange to me.

@TheWynM 9 days ago (edited)

I am a pastor who had a narcissist leader elder, he pretended to be my friend and made a lot of empty promises (literally all of them). For a decade he kept me so poor as he possibly could. When I started to realize it, I couldn’t believe how blind I was. When by grace alone he needed to resign (he fought it tooth and nail), I felt a wonderful freedom and couldn’t believe I allowed to be under bondage for so long. All glory to my Lord Jesus Christ!

@IngridG_phenomena_l_offgrid 11 days ago

🎉absolutly brilliant!

@nv8942 9 days ago

Words of wisdom washing healing over me.

@gerritvandiest6043 9 days ago

100% true
Thank you ❤

@raidenewalden4354 12 days ago

They live in elusion and fantasy and taking away the supply they rely from you will trigger a massive shake into their core . I’ve seen the rage and how powerful it is . Silence calm him down and he didn’t realise his done something to prove he is sick .

@thomasriley4963 9 days ago

When you cut them off they call and bother you and then they tell you they're going to block you I said good thank you

@lizthornton1693 12 days ago

All I want for my daughter of 47 yrs is that she seeks help so that my grandchildren can grow up safely I do feel better now that I have the strength to remain silent .