Having myself some red wine and watching these lectures are as satisfying to me as is new supply to narcs 😂

"if he still loves me after all this, then he really loves me"
Wow.  Yes. The exact unconscious process repeated over and over.

Not fat. Not old. We love you just as you are, prof. Sam Vaknin. Thank you for all you do. ❤

This is probably the most comprehensive pieces of information  regarding BPD to ever be put online. Thank you for this wonderful gift prof. ❤

Wow, that was the most personalized message I’ve ever heard anyone convey regarding the struggles of being in love with a borderline

So the borderline is “at war with her self”

For a very long time I felt that there were two of me at the same time. At each fork in the road I wanted simultaneously to go left and right. Knowing now the relationship between trauma, dissociation and personality it feels as though someone has put into words what I could not. I am so very grateful. Thank you.

I am divorcing a Covert Narcissist he has emptied out our savings and checking and used me for his green card!I want to thank you for helping me get through the drama he has put my kids (My kids none with him)ten years pure hell.I filed over a year ago he changed the locks on me and has his next female in our home!My kids are not able to get there clothing or anything else he never shows up for divorce court on zoom!It has been a living nightmare thank you again for your videos I never knew what a Narcissist was until you made me aware what I was dealing with.Thank you please keep making your videos.Sincerely Linda

Hello Sam! I don't know if you read this or not, but I still wanted to tell you, thanks to your videos I was able to understand myself a little better. Unfortunately I don't have the resources to pay for therapy and your videos helped me a lot to mentalize myself, thank you for all the information you provide!

The closest one gets to living a horror movie.
WOW 😮😢💔

Cbt and dbt for a aware borderline is a great mental tool.  It can essentially rewire the bdp brain. You can avoid reactive patterns by avoiding perilous situations. I  have much less severe traits after intensuve long term therapy.

He said when he looks in the mirror, no one is there.  How could that be since he had robbed me of My identity and kept it; undermining, gas lighting, shape-shifting, withdrawing until I was a shell of myself.  Even when he died, with me by his side, it was like I never existed.

I am a borderline. Thank u so much for your help in understanding myself.

What a glorious gift on this lazy Saturday afternoon. I have something to feed my mind and it happens to be a comprehensive discussion on borderline personality disorder from the master on the subject l. Thanks Dr. Vaknin!

I am a complex creature

Haven't found anybody else who can deliver such information on the topic

That makes sense because I have been through a lot of cursive and controlling behavior from childhood and into adulthood.

Words can't express the importance of this video

I've never found such a comprehensive guide to my condition online before. Thank you.

Nobody asked, everyone needed.
Thank you prof. Vaknin !!